On Monday morning, we began our 2 weeks of programming in Calcutta shelters and red light areas, starting with our very own Destiny girls. After some very silly and hilarious icebreakers, we joined in a forum discussion about women’s rights, comparing progress and continuing challenges in the women’s rights movements of each. We talked about the fact that although the girls all consider America more progressive, we have yet to have a woman president or vice president, whereas India has had two women in the two highest offices.
The girls felt that the biggest difference between Indian and American women is their confidence. American women have more
confidence, they unanimously think, because we are allowed to make all kinds of decisions for ourselves – what to wear, where and how long to study, who to marry, where to live, if we work, and in what field. In India, especially among the poor and in villages, male relatives make all these decisions. Even Becky has to give her father’s name every time she wants to rent an apartment of get a cellphone or Internet connection. Obviously, this systemic sexism is a huge factor in human
trafficking.